Izindlela Zokuveza Amaphupho Akho Nokufeza Izinjongo
Isimo sakho amaphupho ivula ogwini lwesihlabathi esimhlophe. Kukhona okungenhla amanzi indlu. Ngaphakathi kukhona
ngokumangalisayo decadent. Ngokuqalaza nje ekamelweni, uyazi ukuthi liwubukhazikhazi futhi likhethekile. Umbhangqwana ojabule ungaphandle uchaphaza emanzini. Balujabulela kakhulu ucezu lwabo lwangasese lwepharadesi.
Kuzwakala kukuhle, akunjalo? Yini ongayithandi. Noma ngabe imayelana nalolo hambo oluya e-Paris, sonke siyaphupha indlu yokuphupha endaweni yabadla izambane likapondo, i baphuphe umsebenzi nehhovisi ekhoneni.
Yazi ukuthi ungawabonisa kanjani Amaphupho Nezinjongo zakho
Wonke umuntu uyaphupha. Kodwa kukhona abambalwa abancane abakwaziyo ngempela ukwenza inguquko ukusuka emaphusheni ukuya eqinisweni. Singase ithi konke kuhlangene nenhlanhla yokudonsa, kodwa akunjalo. Iqiniso liwukuthi, uma uqhathanisa izindaba zabantu abaningi abakwazi ukufeza amaphupho abo, uzothola imicu evamile kuzo zonke izindaba zabo. Umuntu ovamile ANGAfinyelela amaphupho akhe (ngaphandle kokuthembela ekukhetheni izinombolo zelotho eziwinile). Ngingumuntu wabantu, ngakho ngizokwabelana ngamathiphu ukuveza amaphupho akho.
Ithiphu #1: “Bona” ukuze Ukuyifeze
Ochwepheshe emikhakheni eyahlukene bayavuma ukuthi ukubona ngeso lengqondo kubalulekile. Izindaba eziningi zempumelelo ezidumile zibonwa ngeso lengqondo ngokubasiza ukuba ukufeza izinhloso zabo. UJim Carrey wayeyixoxele indaba yokuthi, lapho esengusomahlaya ompofu nodonsa kanzima, azibhalela kanjani isheke lamaRandi ayizigidi eziyi-10 “ngezinkonzo azenzayo.” Wagcina lokho kungena ephaketheni njengesikhumbuzo salapho ayefuna ukufika khona. Ngo-1994, wakhokhelwa amaRandi ayizigidi eziyi-10 ngeqhaza lakhe efilimini ethi Dumb and Dumber.
Ukubona ngeso lengqondo kuyindlela yokubamba isithombe salapho ofuna ukuba khona ngeso lengqondo yakho (futhi zama ukuzwa umuzwa weqiniso wokuthi kungaba njani ukukubona. iphupho lakho elithile). Ngokwenza lokhu, uzothola ukuqaphela kwakho ukungena futhi usebenzele kulowo mgomo.
Enye indlela yokubona ngeso lengqondo ukwenza ibhodi lemibono. Yilapho uthatha khona ibhodi lephosta bese uthola omagazini bese usika izithombe, izingcaphuno, amagama, imidwebo ehlobene nenhloso yakho ethile. Ungabe usulenga leli bhodi odongeni njengesikhumbuzo sansuku zonke sokuthi ufuna ukuba kuphi nokuthi ufuna ukuphila kanjani.
Ithiphu #2: Gxila kulokho okufunayo
Lokhu kungase kubonakale kusobala, kodwa abantu abaningi benza lokhu okungalungile. Esikhundleni sokugxila kulokho abakufunayo, abantu bagxila kulokho ABAKUFUNI. I Umthetho Wokuheha lifundisa ukuthi indawo yonke ayicubunguli izinto ezingezinhle, kuphela amandla. Uma ubeka amandla akho ekucabangeni ukuthi, “Angifuni line,” indawo yonke icubungula “imvula” kuphela. Ngakho iyiphi enye indlela yokubheka lokhu? Ungagxilisa ingqondo yakho ekucabangeni ukuthi, “Ngifuna ilanga likhanye.” Yomibili imicabango ifuna umphumela ofanayo, kodwa owodwa ugxile kulokho okufunayo ngempela esikhundleni salokho ongakufuni.
Esinye isibonelo, esikhundleni sokucabanga ukuthi, “Angifuni ukukhuluphala,” ungase ucabange, “Ngifuna ukuba nempilo enhle.” Umbono ofanayo. Kodwa enye inegama elibi, kanti enye inesimo esihle kakhulu.
Ithiphu #3: Gxila, gxila, gxila
Uzibekele umgomo. Ungakubona ngeso lengqondo. Manje FOCUS noma Landela Ikhosi Eyodwa Uze Uphumelele (ngiphonse i-anagram lapho ukuze uyigcine ithakazelisa). Ngokugxila emgomweni wakho, uzohlala usebenzela kuwo. Dala uhlu lwamagoli amancane wena isidingo sokufinyelela ukuze ufinyelele umgomo wokugcina. Uma kuwumgomo wakho ukuba umnikazi wendlu eminyakeni engu-2, qala ucwaningo lwakho. Ungathanda ukuhlala kuphi? Ingakanani intengo yekhaya onentshisekelo kulo? Ingakanani inkokhelo encane edingekayo? Sinjani isikolo sakho sekhredithi? Uma usulwenzile ucwaningo lwakho, zibekele imigomo emincane ongayifinyelela. Mhlawumbe udinga ukonga u-$500 ngenyanga izinyanga ezingama-24 ukuze ube nokwanele ukubeka phansi. Mhlawumbe udinga ukuqala ukuthuthukisa isikweletu sakho.
Uma usuhlephule okudingekayo, kuzoba lula ukuthatha zonke izinyathelo ezincane
kudingekile ukuhlangabezana nomgomo wokugcina. Ungakwazi futhi zindla ngomgomo wakho. Dala isiqinisekiso sansuku zonke esizokusiza ufinyelele umgomo. Ungawunikeli “ekhabetheni eliyimfucumfucu” lengqondo yakho; gcina amaphupho akho ephambili, futhi ugxile futhi uvulekele ukuwafeza.
Ithiphu #4: Ukubonga igama lomdlalo
Kunesikole somcabango esithi akuvumele okwengeziwe inala empilweni yakho, okokuqala kufanele ubonge ngalokho osuvele uphiwe kona. Kunengqondo uma ucabanga ngakho. Uma ngikunikeze ibhodlela lamanzi, ungabongi (mhlawumbe udelela), bese ufuna ibhodlela le-pop, impendulo yami izoba “Cha nkosikazi! ”. Ayikho indlela engizohlinzeka ngayo kunoma ubani ongabongi ngalokho asuke enikezwe kona. Okufanayo kuya "emkhathini". Kungani kufanele unikezwe amanye amathuba futhi uphumelele ngokwengeziwe uma ungabongi ngalokho osuvele unakho?
Uzizwa sengathi awunalutho? Awu, uyaphila futhi uyaphefumula, akunjalo? Kubonge lokho. Ngokubonga ngalokho osuvele unakho, uzivulela inala eyengeziwe.
Ithiphu #5: Yiyeke
Isikhathi esedlule singasebenza njengentambo, ikubambele ku impilo ongasafuni ukuyiphila. Uma uzifunela okuthile okusha, kufanele ngempela ukuyeke ukwesaba, ukukhathazeka, nokucwasa, noma ngabe kusekelwe kulokho okwenzeka esikhathini esidlule. Ngakho-ke okuthile akuzange kusebenze okokuqala, akusona isizathu sokungazami futhi (futhi ufunde ephutheni elidlule ukuze ungaliphindi). Abantu abaningi babambelele ezinhlungwini zangesikhathi esidlule abangabashiyanga indawo yamathuba amasha okungena ezimpilweni zabo. I-anagram yokwesaba ithi Ubufakazi Bamanga Obubonakala Bangempela.
Ungavumeli lobu bufakazi bamanga bulawule impilo yakho. Yeka imizwa enzima nemicabango engemihle ekubambezelayo. Uma usukwenzile lokhu, uzoba nokunye okwengeziwe isimo sengqondo esihle futhi sizokhulula amandla amahle emkhathini.
Ithiphu #6: Gcina ukholo
Akukho okwenzeka ngobusuku obubodwa. Kuya nge iphupho lakho elithile, lokhu kungaba inqubo yeminyaka eminingi ukuze ufike lapho uzicabangela khona. Ingabe ungumfundi ophansi ofuna ukuba udokotela ohlinzayo wobuchopho? Khona-ke uyazi ukuthi uneminyaka engaphezu kwe-10 yokufeza lelo phupho ngokugcwele. Leso yisikhathi eside ngaphambi kokufinyelela umgomo omkhulu. Setha amaphuzu amancane endleleni ukuthi ungagubha lokho kuzokusiza ukuthi uhlale usendleleni. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umgomo uyini, gcina ukholo.
Umkhathi usebenzela wena; ugxile futhi ubona amaphupho akho ngeso lengqondo. Kuzokwenzeka. Konke okufanelekile ukuba nakho kufanelekile ukulinda.
Ithiphu #7: Sebenza!
IBhayibheli lithi: “Ukukholwa ngaphandle kwemisebenzi kufile.” Lokhu kusho ukuthi akwanele ukuba nokholo lokho kukhona okuzokwenzeka. Kufanele futhi usebenzele kukho. Lona akuwona umbukiso wemilingo, nezinto ezibonakala zingelutho air. Umsebenzi uyadingeka futhi. Uyafuna ukuba umlingisi?
Hhayi-ke, kuzofanele uye kunhlolokhono noma amabili. Ufuna ukufaneleka? Kuzodingeka udle ngendlela efanele futhi uzivocavoce. Uyafuna ukufunda ukushayela? Udinga ukuthatha ikilasi, noma okungenani ube nomngane ozokufundisa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyini umgomo, kuzodingeka ufake ukulingana komjuluko futhi empeleni usebenze ufinyelele umgomo. Ungakhathazeki! Uzokwenza lapho.
Isisho esidumile sithi, "Uhambo lwamamayela ayinkulungwane luqala ngesinyathelo esisodwa." Chaza okufunayo aphume ekuphileni, futhi usebenzise lawa macebiso ukuze akusize uthathe leso sinyathelo sokuqala.
Ungaphuphi impilo yakho. Phila amaphupho.