Incazelo Yephupho Lebutho: Ukutolika Okuphelele kanye Nezimpawu Zephupho
Uma ukhona ukuphupha mayelana nebutho namasosha, kusho ukuthini? Wake wacabanga ukuthi njalo baphuphe kungaholela esimweni esingase sibe yingozi kakhulu? Ingabe wake waba nakho amaphupho mayelana nesenzakalo esithile esisongela ukwenzeka nokwesaba ukuthi ungase ube ukuphupha ngokuthile kubi? Ingabe uphupha ngebutho emaphusheni? Ingabe uyesaba ukuthi ingase ikuhlasele? Ingabe uyesaba ukuthi ibutho lingase libe libi? Ubungazizwa kanjani uma bekuyibutho lakho elingene emzini wakho?
Kwenzekani lapho umuntu evuka ekuseni ngephupho mayelana nokuhlasela kwezempi? Ngabe kusho lokho kukhona okuzokwenzeka kanye nempilo yomuntu usengozini? Kusho ukuthi iphupho lingase libe elisikisela kakhulu ikusasa.
Isipiliyoni samaphupho mayelana nokuhlasela kwezempi
Abanye abantu thola amaphupho mayelana nezempi ukuhlasela bathi kumane kuyisenzakalo esibavula amehlo. Abanye babika ukuthi umcimbi ubeke inselele umuzwa wabo wokuphepha futhi manje sebehambisana kakhulu nomhlaba wabo.
Ngemva kwaleli phupho, zibuze imibuzo abantu abavame ukuzibuza yona phakathi a isimo esicindezelayo. Ungazizwa kanjani uma othile engena emzini wakho phakathi nobusuku futhi aqale ukudubula umndeni wakho?
Iphupho Lebutho: Ukuzivikela nje ezinsongweni
Abantu abaningi babika ukuthi emaphusheni abo mayelana nebutho, abazizwa besongelwa. Banomuzwa wokuthi ibutho elihlaselayo liyazivikela ezinsongweni.
Abantu abaningi abahlela ukuhlasela izwe bazokwenza ukuzama ukuthola inhlonipho ngokulawula kwabo abezindaba. Njengoba ngike ngaxoxa ngenhla, leli phupho lingakubonisa indlela yokuthola inhlonipho emehlweni ezitha zakho.
Amasosha ezempi ngokuvamile ahlala eqaphile ebusuku, ebheke amanye amabutho. Banomuzwa wokuthi kungenzeka ukuthi isitha sihlela ukuhlasela futhi cishe sizobe silindele zona lezo zimpawu.
Ngakho-ke, uma amaphupho akho engazange abonise noma iyiphi inkomba yokuhlasela, kungenzeka ukuthi uyaphupha ngebutho lakho. Noma, mhlawumbe unephupho elijwayelekile ngamasosha.
Ukuhunyushwa amaphupho Army izincazelo izimpawu ezahlukene
The umbuzo ovame kakhulu umcwaningi uyabuza ukuthi, “Uthini umlayezo owutholayo?” Ingabe kusho ukuthi, “Awusoze wasibusa, “Umbuso wakho uyowohloka”? Abantu bathambekele ekuchazeni amaphupho ngamasosha nokuhlasela ngendlela ehlukile kuye ngokuthi bawachaza kanjani izincazelo zezimpawu ezahlukene.
Incazelo yamaphupho imvamisa ihlaziywa kusetshenziswa ukuhunyushwa kwamaphupho. Abanye abantu bahle kakhulu ekuchazeni amaphupho futhi ngikwazi ukuphendula imibuzo efana nale engiphuphe ngayo ngilele. Kodwa-ke, abanye abakwazi ukukwenza kahle, futhi benza ukucabanga okungalungile ngakho. Lapho abantu behumusha amaphupho, bangakwazi ukuphendula ngokunembile umbuzo,"kwenzenjani ephusheni lami?"
Umqondo wokuhlasela kwezempi uyaphoqa.
Incazelo yephupho ithi umqondo wokuhlasela kwezempi uyaphoqa futhi ungaletha konke imiphumela engenzeka empilweni yomuntu. Kwenzeka okufanayo uma umuntu ephupha ngomcimbi noma isimo esithile. Uma iphupho lihlanganisa okuthile okubi okwenzekayo, khona-ke kungaba nencazelo ethile empilweni yakho. Nokho, uma iphupho libhekisela a isimo esiphephile, khona-ke lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi ngeke kwenzeke.
Isibonelo, iphupho ngempi lapho amadoda ehlaselana khona akusho lutho noma angakwazi ngisho nokusho into enhle kakhulu. Iphupho “lokuvukela kwabantu” lingabhekisela ekuthuleni. Ukuhlasela kwezempi ephusheni mayelana nomuntu oye waba umdlavuza kusho ukuthi umuntu udinga usizo. Ngezinye izikhathi ukugula komuntu kungase kubonakale kuyimbangela yakhe, futhi kudingeka bathole ukwelashwa okufanele.
Ukuhunyushwa kwamaphupho mayelana nokuhlasela kwezempi
Uma umuntu enephupho mayelana nokuhlasela kwezempi, kufanele axhumane ne beka kuphi bayasebenza. Angakwazi nokuzibambela mathupha. Kunezindlela eziningi "zokuphenya" ukuthi banephupho mayelana nokuhlasela kwezempi.
Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukubona ukuthi ulwazi olunikezwe ephusheni mayelana nokuhlasela kwezempi kusho noma yini. Kwezinye izimo, amaphupho abhekisela kusongo empilweni yomuntu noma impahla angase athi unenkinga.
Isifinyezo
Kwezinye izimo, kungahunyushwa ngokuthi kubhekiselwa ebuthweni elisanda kuhlasela izwe. Kodwa-ke, uma iphupho libhekisela kumuntu oye waba nengxenye ingozi futhi udinga usizo, khona-ke iphupho lingase libhekisele kumuntu osesendleleni yokululama. Ngakho, iphupho mayelana nebutho namasosha akuyona into okufanele uyesabe.