Ukuphupha Ngengane Elahlekile: Incazelo Yamaphupho kanye Nencazelo
Abantu abaningi bathola izehlakalo zemvelo nezishaqisayo ezenzeka empilweni yabo amaphupho. Abakuqapheli ukuthi abaningi banamaphupho ambalwa ajwayelekile ahlobene nezinkinga. Ngakho-ke, lokho sekuvele muva nje kwezabo ukuphila noma kungaba nethonya elithile. Lokhu kungase kuholele ekwesabeni ukuba nephupho elibi noma ukuvuka nento abangayijwayele.
Abantu bakuqaphelile lokho amaningi amaphupho kubonakala kuhlobana nezinto ezenzeka esikhathini esidlule, ikakhulukazi lezo ezimayelana nezimo ababhekene nazo njengamanje. Ngakho, nazi ezinye ezivamile izincazelo zephupho okuhambisana nengane ethathwa ngamaphupho.
Amaphupho emvelo ebucayi
Kwesinye isikhathi, amaphupho angamaphupho emvelo engathi sína, futhi abantu bathatha umthwalo wokunakekela ingane. Bangase basebenze njengesivikelo futhi bazame ukubenza babuyele emndenini wabo. Ngakho-ke, kufanele ubasize ngezinkinga zabo. Kwesinye isikhathi, bazobonakala ekhaya bezobalanda futhi bababeke esitokisini sabo.
Ingane ethathwe emaphusheni ingase isendaweni emnyama. Lena kungaba yindawo lapho bezizwa bebodwa futhi bengathandwa. Cishe bazizwa becindezeleke kakhulu futhi bengakhululekile kunamanje, futhi bazongena emakhazeni. ukwethuka futhi unyakazise noma ukhale.
Kwenzekani noma kanjani ukubaleka?
Kwesinye isikhathi ingane ihamba ngamaphupho asabisayo. Bangase bazizwe sengathi bathathwa yiqembu lama-hoodlum. Bangase bangazi ukuthi kwenzekani noma babaleke kanjani.
Ingqondo yengane izama ukwenza umqondo walokho okwenzeka kuyo, futhi abanye abantu bangase babe ezama ukuzola phansi noma ubatshele ukuthi bathembele emizweni yabo. Futhi, ezimweni eziningi, ingane ayikho emqondweni wayo olungile futhi ingase icabange ngalokho ekubonayo. Ngakho-ke, abanye bangadlulela kubo futhi babasize behlise umoya futhi babone ukuthi kwenzekani ezingqondweni zabo.
Izinhlobo zephupho lengane ukuthunjwa
Ezinye zezimo ezivame kakhulu ukuba sebhilidini elimnyama, elilahliwe. Ingane ingase yesabe ubumnyama, futhi uma kwenzeka into embi kuyo, izocabanga ukuthi iyasuswa. Bangase bethuke ngoba basanda kuthola ukuthi kukhona umuntu endlini yabo bebodwa.
Kwesinye isikhathi ingane izothunyelwa endaweni yedolobha emnyama, lapho eseduze nengozi futhi ethambekele kuyo ukuhlaselwa ngokomzimba. Eziningi zezingane ezindala kungenzeka sezivele zilahlekelwe ukuxhumana ngobumsulwa bazo bezingane, futhi zifuna ukuzijabulisa, futhi uma ziqala endaweni ezingajwayelekile, kuba lula kuzo ukuthi zilingise. Lokhu kungenzeka ngisho nakumntwana wakini omdala othathwa ngamaphupho.
Iphupho Ukuhunyushwa ingane wathunjwa.
Kwesinye isikhathi amaphupho asuke emayelana nokuthile osekuzokwenzeka, bese umuntu ecabanga ukuthi kunjalo esuswa ngokuthile. Ngokwesibonelo, kungase kube khona a umlilo lokho sekuzogqashuka, futhi bayoba nenhlanhla yokuphunyuka bengenamyocu uma bethola indawo yokukhosela kungakephuzi kakhulu.
Okunye okudumile ukwenzeka lapho umuntu elwa nomuntu amthandayo, impi imenze aphucwe. Bangase bacabange ukuthi balahlekelwa umngane noma othandekayo, futhi kuzoba inselele ukubabuyisela emuva. Bangaze bamangale lapho bethola ukuthi bathathiwe, bathuke bakhale.
Into emayelana naleliphupho izincazelo
Ngeke wazi ukuthi amaphupho awangempela noma cha. Abantu kufanele bahlale benomqondo ovulekile futhi bangafinyeleli esiphethweni. Ngokuvamile, umuntu onayo iphupho lingahle lingaqapheli, kanti bazidlalela nje ngoba besaba.
Imicabango Final
Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi kwenzekani empilweni yakho kanye nasezimpilweni zabanye abantu ukuze uqonde amaphupho abo ahlukene. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokufunda iwukuba uthole ulwazi oluningi ngangokunokwenzeka futhi uxhumane nabanye abanalo amaphupho abanolwazi anencazelo. Futhi ingabelana nawe.