Ukuphupha Ngokuzibulala: Incazelo kanye Nencazelo Yamaphupho
Uma uzama ukuqonda incazelo yamaphupho akho, kufanele futhi ubheke nalezi zincazelo ezingezansi. Lokhu kuzokusiza uqonde kangcono indlela yakho amaphupho ziza kuwe, njengamaphupho ngokuzibulala noma amanye amaphupho.
Ukuzibulala baphuphe incazelo ithi eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu futhi kungabonwa ngezinhlobo eziningi ezahlukene zamaphupho. Nakuba abanye bengase bafune ukuzibulala empeleni, abanye bangase bacasuke noma bacindezeleke futhi bangathanda ukuzizwa beqondwa. Kunezikhathi lapho ukuzibulala kubonakala njengendlela yokuphuma ekucindezelekeni noma izinkinga ezingaxazululeki engqondweni.
Ngakho-ke, kubantu abazibona njengababalekela ukuhlupheka noma intukuthelo yabo, lokhu kuzibulala ukuhunyushwa kwamaphupho ingase ibasize bathole izixazululo. Lokhu kungasiza ekunqobeni ukucindezeleka. Nokho, okunye ukuzibulala ukuhunyushwa kwamaphupho kungavela ngenxa yenkinga ejulile ngaphakathi kwengqondo. Lokhu kungase kuholele ekuzizweni ungelutho. Ungase uzizwe unesidingo sokuthola uhlobo oluthile lobungane. Mhlawumbe lokhu kungasiza ukugcwalisa lesi sikhala emphefumulweni. Lokhu kubangela ukuthi umuntu aqale ukubuza, “Lisho ukuthini iphupho lami leBhayibheli lokuzibulala?”
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yisiphi isimo esiholela ekutheni umuntu afune ukuba nencazelo yephupho lokuzibulala, kunjalo kubalulekile ukuqaphela lezi zincazelo cishe zizoncika endleleni ozibona ngayo, ukuthi ubukuphi, kanye nezinto ezenzeke empilweni yakho. Umuntu ngamunye unencazelo yakhe yephupho lakhe.
Umuntu obona iphupho lakhe lokuzibulala lisho ukuthini njengendlela yokuphunyuka kuyodingeka abheke imicabango nemizwa abayiyo. ezama ukuphunyuka kusuka. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umuntu obona incazelo yephupho njengento eyengeziwe intando yomuntu siqu kufanele bathole ukuthi kungani bezizwa belahlekile futhi badinga othile ozohambisana nabo endleleni yabo uhambo empilweni. Uma unenkinga yokubheka incazelo yephupho lakho, cela abangani bakho nomndeni wakho ukuthi bakutshele uma kukhona okungenzeka ukuthi kuyakukhathaza. Futhi uma kunjalo, buyela emuva futhi ukubheke futhi. Uma bengakwenza lokhu, khona-ke kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ungakwazi ukuphendula imibuzo yakho mayelana nephupho lakho lokuzibulala.
Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi abangani bakho nomndeni bangase bangakwazi ukukutshela okuthile mayelana nencazelo yephupho lakho. Khona-ke, ungakwazi ukunquma ukuthi kungaba yini. Abantu abaningi bacabanga kanjalo ukuthi uma benencazelo yephupho lokuzibulala bazi kahle ukuthi lichaza ukuthini. Lokhu kungase kube yiqiniso ngezinye izikhathi, kodwa kuhle kakhulu ukubekezela nokufuna imibono yabanye.
Izikhathi eziningi, abantu ababona incazelo yamaphupho abo njengendlela yokuphunyuka abakwazi ukuqiniseka ngencazelo eqondile yephupho. Lokhu kungabaholela ekubeni bacabange ukuthi bayakwazi abafuna ukukubona, kodwa empeleni, abanaso isiqiniseko. Yebo, lokhu kungenza babe bazizwa besengozini kakhulu. Futhi kungase kubangele ukuba bethuke kakhulu. Kwesinye isikhathi, uyazi ukuthi iphupho lakho lisho ukuthini. Kodwa, kusengabangela ukucindezeleka okukhulu nokwesaba kangangokuthi awukwazi ukulala ebusuku.
Imicabango Final
Ukuchazwa kwephupho lakho lokuzibulala cishe kuzoba umphumela wokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho empilweni. Kungase kusho izinto ezahlukene kubantu abehlukene. Kungashintsha ngokuya ngenani lesikhathi osichitha ucabanga ngamaphupho akho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uchazwa kanjani, kungasiza uma uthatha isikhashana ukubheka amaphupho akho. Zama ukuthola a ukuqonda kangcono kubo.