Ukuphupha Ngowesifazane: Incazelo kanye Nencazelo Yamaphupho
Ingabe unenkinga ukuthola incazelo ngowesifazane wakho baphuphe? Ingabe ukhathazekile ngokuthi awuzenzi izinto ezifanele ezizomenza athandane nawe ephusheni lakho? Noma kungenzeka ukuthi awufundanga kahle amaphupho akho? Noma awuzange ube khona qaphela ngokwanele ukwazi ukuthi yini yakho amaphupho kusho?
Qonda incazelo yowesifazane ephusheni
Ukuze uqonde ukuthi yini abantu besifazane abayifunayo ngempela kwabesilisa, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi abesifazane ngokuvamile bangaxutshwa kokuqukethwe kocansi kwamaphupho ethu. Ngakho-ke, emaphusheni akho, mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi sokunaka ukuze ukwazi qaphela kakhulu kwemiyalezo. Ngezansi kukhona amathiphu ajwayelekile angakusiza uqonde incazelo yowesifazane ephusheni lakho.
Okusho ukubona owesifazane omuhle ephusheni
Okokuqala, abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi ukubona owesifazane omuhle ephusheni lakho ngokuvamile kusho ubulili. Kodwa nakuba abantu abaningi bezothi lokhu kuyiqiniso, akusho ngempela ukuthi abakubona emaphusheni abo yilokho okuzokwenzeka. Uma kuziwa emaphusheni akho, ucansi akuyona into eyodwa ezokuhlanganisa wena nowesifazane osephusheni lakho.
Kunalokho, uma unephupho a owesifazane omuhle, kungenzeka ukuthi ufuna umuntu nje. Lona kungase kube othile ongakunikeza izimfanelo okholelwa ukuthi zinhle. Mhlawumbe, uthanda abantu besifazane abade, abancane, nabablonde. Kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi uzothola blonde omuhle emaphusheni akho. Kunalokho, incazelo yakho yephupho yowesifazane omuhle ingasho ukuthi ufuna umuntu ongakunikeza lezo zimfanelo.
Ufuna ukubonakaliswa kothando ngokomzimba
Uma kuziwa emshadweni nothando, ngokuvamile amaphupho akho incazelo yowesifazane omuhle kungase futhi kusho ukuthi ufuna ukubonakaliswa ngokomzimba kothando kanye nomuntu ofuna ngempela abe umlingani wakho. Esikhundleni sokubona owesifazane omuhle emaphusheni akho, ungase umane ubheke umuntu onezimpawu ezifanayo nezakho. Iqiniso liwukuthi incazelo yephupho yowesifazane omuhle ingase isho ukuthi nje ufuna umlingani ofanele owawucabanga ukuthi uzokwenza impilo yakho iphelele.
Ukuthola owesifazane omuhle emaphusheni akho
Ake sithi uhlala ufika ngesikhathi sama-aphoyintimenti bese ukhohlwa ngakho izikhathi ezikhethekile. Iphupho lakho lowesifazane omuhle kungaba umuntu onezimpawu ezifana nezakho. Futhi, amaphupho akho angahle akutshela ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuthi wenze lokhu noma lokhuya. Ngakho-ke, esikhundleni sokucabanga ukuthi uzothola owesifazane omuhle emaphusheni akho bese uqaphela ukuthi ukumoshile, zama ukucabanga ngakho kahle. Esikhundleni sokubona owesifazane ephusheni lakho ongamfuni, bheka umlingani omfuna ngempela futhi ofanelwe ukuba naye.
Zijwayeze ukukhumbula amaphupho akho
Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzijwayeza ukukhumbula amaphupho akho. Ikakhulukazi uma unenkinga yokufika kowesifazane ephusheni lakho, thatha isikhathi, futhi uqaphele ukuthi amaphupho akho asho ukuthini. Futhi uma uqaphela ukuthi amaphupho akho asho ukuthini, zama ukukhumbula obukulindele. Futhi, hhayi lokho obungakulindele.
Imicabango Final
Kwesinye isikhathi, amaphupho akho angakusiza ubone ukuthi amaphupho akho athini kuwe. Lokhu kungakusiza futhi ukuthi ubone ukuthi incazelo yakho ye-a owesifazane omuhle usempilweni yangempela. Futhi futhi, futhi yini incazelo yephupho yowesifazane oshadile ephusheni lakho imayelana. Ngemva kwalokho, ungakwazi ukuhlanganisa lezi zinto ezimbili. Ngemuva kwalokho, uyabona ukuthi yini oyifunayo ngempela futhi ufunde ukuthi ungawaphilisa kanjani amaphupho akho!