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Isichazamazwi Sephupho D (5): Ukuhunyushwa Kwephupho Lezimpawu Kuqala ngo-D

Ukuhlaziywa Kwephupho Kwamagama D: Ikhasi 5 - I-Dinosaur to Ditch

Isichazamazwi Sephupho samagama ka-D - Ikhasi 5

Incazelo Yamaphupho: Amagama aqala ngo-D

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D Ikhasi 7

I-Dinosaur

Ukubona idayinaso ephusheni lakho kungaba ukumelela ukuthi usuhambe ibanga elingakanani uma uhamba uzizwe unethemba ephusheni lakho. Lokhu kungaphakamisa ukuthi ukhula kancane futhi uthuthuka muva nje. Lokhu kungasikisela ukuthi unekhono elihle lokujwayela indawo okuzungezile.

Uma isimo sephupho sibi, lokhu kungase kusikisele ukuthi imibono yakho isigugile noma isiphelelwe yisikhathi. Uma isithombe se-dinosaur sisentweni esephusheni lakho, lokhu kungase kuphakamise ukuthi le nto isiphelelwe yisikhathi.

Bona Isilwane* ukuze uqhubeke isimboli samaphupho.

I-Dionysus

UDionysus ungunkulunkulu wewayini nokuzala. Ngokuvamile, lesi sibalo samaphupho singamela imizwa yakho yocansi noma ngenye indlela ephambukayo. Lokhu kungase kusikisele ukuthi ufisa sengathi impilo yakho yocansi ibisebenza kakhulu noma ijabulisa ukwedlula impilo yakho evukayo. Ungase ufune okwengeziwe empilweni yakho yocansi kunalokho okutholayo.

Leli phupho lingase libe uphawu lokuthi kufanele uphuze utshwala kancane.

Diploma

Ukuphupha ukuthola idiploma ingaphakamisa ukuthi uzizwa sengathi ufeze okuthile okubalulekile empilweni yakho evukayo. Idiploma ephusheni lakho iwumfanekiso womvuzo ocabanga ukuthi uwufanele.

isikhangiso
isikhangiso

Idiplomat

Ukuphupha ukubona noma ukuba idiplomat kungasikisela ukuthi ubhekene nenkinga empilweni yakho evukayo, noma ozobhekana nayo esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, okuzodingeka phatha ngokucophelela. Qiniseka ukuthi uzinika isikhathi sokucabanga ngale nkinga ngaphambi kokwenza okuthile.

Iziqondiso

Ukunikeza izikhombisi-ndlela ephusheni kungasikisela ukuthi uzizwa unamandla empilweni yakho evukayo. Unezinga elithile legunya phezu kwabantu abaseduze kwakho nomuzwa wokuthi ulawula ukuphila kwakho siqu. Vele uqiniseke ukuthi awuwasebenzisi kabi amandla akho, kungenjalo umphumela wakho wekusasa uzoba mufi.

Ukunikezwa iziqondiso ephusheni kunezincazelo eziphambene kuye ngokuthi iphupho linjani. Uma wamukela izinkombandlela zakho ngomoya omuhle, lokhu kungaphakamisa ukuthi unekhono ekuthatheni ukugxekwa nokukusebenzisa empilweni yakho. Uma isimo sephupho sisibi, leli phupho lingakutshela ukuthi udinga ukufunda emaphutheni akho adlule ukuthi ungawaphindi.

Director

Ukuphupha ubona umqondisi kungasikisela ukuthi ufisa ukuzilawula noma okunye. Leli phupho likhona ukuze likukhuthaze lawula impilo yakho, ngisho noma kungase kube nzima.

Ukungcola

Ukubona ukungcola ngaphandle kuwuphawu oluhle. Lokhu kusikisela ukuthi ikusasa lakho eliseduze lizosetshenziswa unempilo enhle. Uma udlala amakhadi akho kahle, uqinisekile ukuthi uzozizwa unenhlanhla isikhathi esifushane.

Ukuba nokungcola ezingutsheni noma emzimbeni wakho kuwuphawu olubi. Lokhu kungabikezela ukuthi imikhuba yakho ayihlanzekile futhi uzogula ngenxa yayo.

Dirty

Ukungcola ephusheni kungahlotshaniswa nokuzizwa ungcolile impilo yakho evukayo. Leli phupho lingase lisikisele ukuthi unemicabango engahlanzekile. Uma ungumuntu osontayo, lokhu kungase kubangelwa ukona noma ukwenza ezinye izenzo zokuziphatha okubi. Akuzona izenzo ezimbi kuphela ezingadala lamaphupho kodwa nemicabango emibi. Ukuthukuthela kwakho, imicabango yocansi ephambukayo, noma imicabango noma izenzo zokukhohlisa noma zokulimaza othile kungaba yimbangela yaleli gama lephupho.

Bona Ukungcola* uma kusebenza ephusheni lakho.

Ukukhubazeka

Ukuphupha ukuthi unokukhubazeka uma wenza empilweni yakho yokuvuka akunalo uphawu lwamaphupho amaningi.

Ukuphupha ukuthi unokukhubazeka ngenkathi ungenayo empilweni yakho evukayo kungasikisela ukuthi uzizwa ulinganiselwe empilweni yakho yokuvuka. Ungase uzizwe sengathi omunye umuntu okwenzela zonke izinqumo zakho ezibalulekile.

Leli phupho kungase futhi basikisela ukuthi yakho ugqhozu lwakho iphansi okwamanje. Ungase ube namahloni noma udumazeke engxenyeni ethile yakho. Ungase uzizwe sengathi awulungile ngendlela ongaba yikho.

Ukubheka ingxenye yomzimba wakho ethinta ukukhubazeka noma igama lokukhubazeka (isb: impumputhe, isithulu) nakho kungakunikeza ezinye izimpawu zamaphupho.

Ukuchitheka

Ukwazi ukuthi othile unyamalele, ngisho noma ungambonanga, kungase kufanekisele umqondo wokuthi imicabango ingase ibonakale ingena engqondweni yakho bese iphuma ingenamkhondo ngokuzenzakalelayo. Kuya ngesimo sephupho lakho, leli gama lingase liphakamise ukuthi udinga ukugxila amandla akho kule micabango ngaphambi kokuba ihambe noma ukuthi le micabango kufanele inakwe njengoba izohamba maduze.

Ukubona okuthile kungasikisela ukuthi kunekhwalithi ethile entweni noma into emele into ongayithandi. Lokhu kungase kusikisele ukuthi uziba ikhwalithi le nto emele yona ekuphileni kwakho okuvukayo. Kuye ngesimo sephupho, lokhu kungaba uphawu lokuthi kufanele uqhubeke ungayinaki le mfanelo noma qala ukunaka kuwo.

Ukudumazeka

Ukuphupha ukuthi udunyazwe ngumuntu kungakhombisa ukudumala okuzwa empilweni yakho evukayo. Leli phupho lingakukhuthaza ukuthi ubhekane nokudumala empilweni yakho, ungaqhubeki nokuphoxa. Ukuthola indawo yokuphuma noma indlela yokushintsha kungenza umehluko.

Ukungavunyelwa

Ukuphupha ukungavunyelwa kungasikisela ukuthi ukuzethemba kwakho kuphansi. Ungase uzizwe sengathi awulungile ngokwanele noma sengathi kukhona okungahambi kahle ngawe. Leli phupho lingenza umuntu phansi, kodwa futhi lingaba uphawu olukhuthazayo. Leli phupho liwuphawu lokuthi manje yisikhathi sokuthi uzishintshe ube ngcono ukuze ungabe usazizwa ngale ndlela.

Inhlekelele

Ukuphupha ukuthi uhileleke kunoma iyiphi inhlekelele kuwuphawu olubi. Leli phupho lingabikezela ukuthi ishwa lizokuza. Uma uwedwa ephusheni lakho, khona-ke lokhu kungasikisela ukuthi inhlanhla yakho izoba nebhizinisi. Uma unabanye, ishwa lakho lingase libe njalo kuthinte impilo yakho yomphakathi. Uma wazi abantu ephusheni lakho kanye nawe, iphupho lakho lingase libikezele inkinga ngobuhlobo bakho nomuntu osephusheni lakho.

Isiyalo

Ukuphupha ukuthi uyalwa kungasikisela ukuthi uchithe isikhathi sakho empilweni yakho evukayo. Uma ungumuntu omdala ozimele, kusho ukuthi abekho abantu abaningi abangakulaya ngempela. Kungasiza uma ufunda ukuzikhuza futhi ulandele imigomo yakho.

Ukuphupha ukuthi ulaya omunye umuntu kungasikisela ukuthi udinga ukusebenza kakhulu ezimpilweni zabantu obakhathalelayo. Lokhu kungase kusikisele ukuthi udinga ukunikeza isiqondiso kumuntu ongakwazi ukuphila ngendlela enhle.

Leli phupho lingase futhi limelele intukuthelo evuthayo kumuntu ofuna ukumzwisa ubuhlungu noma kumuntu okuzwise ubuhlungu esikhathini esidlule.

disco

Ukuzwa umculo we-disco, noma ukudansa kuwo, ephusheni kungasikisela ukuthi udinga ukuphuma futhi ube nokuzijabulisa okwengeziwe. Kungasiza uma uthola izindlela zokudala zokuziveza. Cishe lokhu kuyokusiza ukuba ube umuntu ojabule kakhudlwana.

Ukutholwa

Ukuphupha uthola okuthile ephusheni kungabikezela ukuthi usuzoqala iphrojekthi entsha empilweni yakho evukayo noma ungene isigaba esisha sempilo yakho.

Leli phupho lingase futhi limele umuzwa wokuthola isici esisha sobuntu bakho noma ukuthi uthole into entsha yokuzilibazisa onentshisekelo kuyo.

Izifo

Ukuphupha ukuthi uphethwe isifo esithile kungasikisela ukuthi ubhekene nezinkinga zobudlelwano empilweni yakho evukayo, cishe nelunga lomndeni. Uma kungenjalo, lokhu kungaba isibikezelo sokuthi uzogula maduzane.

Amahloni

Ukuzizwa uhlazekile noma ukubizwa ngokuthi "kuyihlazo" ephusheni kungaba ukumelela imizwa yakho ekuphileni kwakho okuvukayo. Leli phupho kungenzeka likhomba ukuthi ubungenzi ngokulandela impilo yakho evukayo izindinganiso zokuziphatha muva nje. Ungase uzizwe sengathi awuzange wenze umzamo wakho omuhle kamuva nje. Ungase uzibone usuphambuka kokujwayelekile, futhi lokhu kungenza noma ubani azizwe engakhululekile. Ukwenza ngendlela ozizwa ngayo okufanele ukwenze kungamisa imizwa yakho engathandeki emaphusheni akho kanye nempilo evukayo.

Fihla

Ukugqoka okufihlakele ephusheni lakho kungaba ukumelwa kwesidingo sakho sobumfihlo noma imfihlo. Cishe kunezingxenye zobuntu bakho ongafuni abanye bazi. Ukugqoka i-disguise ephusheni lakho kungasikisela ukuthi uzama ukufihla noma ukuguqula ubuntu bakho bangaphandle ukuze abanye bangangabazi ukuthi kwenzekani ekhanda lakho. Ungase uzizwe sengathi udlala indima ethile uma ungenalo iqiniso kuwena. Uma leli phupho linezwi elibi kulo, khona-ke lokhu kungasikisela ukuthi ukufihla imizwa yakho yangempela kwenza abantu bazizwe sengathi uyabakhohlisa.

Ukuze ubone izimpawu ezifanayo, bheka phezulu Imvunulo*.

Disgust

Ukuzizwa unengekile ephusheni lakho kungasikisela ukuthi awukhululekile ngengxenye ethile yobuntu bakho. Ungase uzizwe sengathi ufuna ukushintsha, kodwa ungase ungazi ukuthi kufanele uhambe kanjani ngokushintsha. Kungenzeka ukuthi wenqaba ushintsho ngoba wesaba ukuthi luzophumela enguqulweni embi kakhulu yakho esikhundleni senguqulo engcono.

Dish

Ukubona noma ukuphatha izitsha ephusheni kuyisibonakaliso esihle, ikakhulukazi uma zihlanzekile futhi zicwebezela. Leli phupho lingamela indlela ozizwa uphumelele ngayo empilweni yakho evukayo njengamanje, noma lingabonakala njengesibikezelo esibonisa ukuthi uzoba ngempumelelo maduze.

Ukuphula izitsha ephusheni kuwuphawu olubi. Leli gama lephupho lingaphakamisa ukuthi uzodlula ethubeni lokuthuthuka noma impumelelo ejwayelekile. Uma kunjalo ephusheni lakho, kungcono ukuthi uziqaphele namathuba azayo ukuze ungayeki impumelelo engaba khona.

Umshini wokuwasha izitsha

Ukuphupha umshini wokuwasha izitsha kusikisela ukuthi unezinkinga ezithile okudingeka uzihlanze. Bhekana nezinkinga zakho ngqo ukuze ukwazi ukuzixazulula futhi uzixazulule ngokushesha. Uma usujwayela ukwenza lokhu, nakanjani uzoshesha ekuxazululeni izinkinga zakho-njengokusebenzisa umshini wokuwasha izitsha kulula kunokugeza izitsha ngesandla.

Isibulala magciwane

Ukusebenzisa isibulala-magciwane ephusheni kungasikisela ukuthi uzizwa isidingo sokuzihlanza ezenzweni zakho ezedlule. Lokhu kungaba isiphakamiso esivela ekwazini kwakho okuncane uzama ukukutshela ukuthi wenze njalo qala kabusha empilweni yakho.

Akulahliwe

Ukuphupha ukuthi ulahlekelwe ifa ngesizathu esisodwa noma esinye ephusheni kungasikisela ukuthi uzongena esimweni esingesihle. isimo senhlalo ngokushesha noma uxabane nomndeni wakho. Nakuba kungase kungajabulisi, indlela engcono yokuqeda le drama ukwenza okuthile okujabulisa umndeni wakho, ngisho noma kungajabulisi esikhathini esifushane.

disk

Njengoba idiski isesimweni sendilinga, ingamela ukuza “kwendilinga egcwele,” “umbuthano wokuphila,” kanye nanoma yisiphi esinye isikhathi somjikelezo. Lokhu kungenzeka kuhlobene nobuchwepheshe noma ezokuzijabulisa eziza umbuthano ogcwele.

Bona Umbuthano* ukuze uthole olunye uphawu lwephupho.

Ukuqaqa

Ukuphupha ukuthi wena noma omunye umuntu ulahlekelwa isitho kuhlale kuwuphawu olubi. Leli phupho lingasikisela ukuthi kuzwakala sengathi ulahlekelwe ingxenye yakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi leli phupho lizama ukukutshela ukuthi kunesikhala empilweni yakho okufanele usivale. Ukubheka ukuthi yisiphi isitho somzimba esishodayo kungase kukunikeze izinkomba ngalokho okushodayo empilweni yakho.

Leli phupho lingaphakamisa nokuthi usuzokwenza a ushintsho olukhulu empilweni yakho, futhi kuzoba buhlungu (ngokomzwelo noma ngokomzimba) isikhathi esifushane, kodwa kamuva ushintsho luyokuzuzisa ngezindlela okungenzeka awukwazi nokuzicabanga manje.

Ungalaleli

Ukuphupha ukuthi awumlaleli othile ephusheni kungasikisela ukuthi uphambene nezindinganiso zakho zokuziphatha ekuphileni kwakho okuvukayo. Uziphatha njengomuntu ongafuni ukuba yikho. Leli phupho lingabonisa ukuthi udinga ukusebenzisa ingqondo futhi uzenzele okulungile, hhayi nje lokho okuzizwa kumnandi okwamanje.

Leli phupho lingaphakamisa nokuthi ubambe imizwa empilweni yakho evukayo. Ungase ube novalo ngokuziveza kwabanye, futhi ngenxa yalokho, ungase uze ufihle imizwa yakho yangempela kuwe.

Ingxabano

Bona Ingxabano* ngomfanekiso wamaphupho

Hlukanisa

Ukukhipha okuthile ephusheni kungasikisela ukuthi uzizwa isidingo sokubheka phambili esimweni noma umbono. Ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kwemvelo ilukuluku lokufuna ukwazi kungaba ithuluzi elikhulu elingakusiza ukuba ube umuntu ohlakaniphe kakhulu futhi ofundile. Kodwa-ke, uma ubamba ikhala lakho lapho okungeyona eyakho noma umba inhlebo esikhundleni seqiniso, lapho-ke kungenzeka uzithole ulimala (ngokomzwelo noma ngokomzimba) ohlelweni lokuthola ulwazi olusha. Ngale ndlela, ukumba esihlokweni kungaba buhlungu njengokuqaqa.

Qhafaza

Ukubona okuthile kuncibilika ephusheni lakho kungasikisela ukuthi udinga ukuyeka okuthile empilweni yakho evukayo. Isikhathi sokuvumela isimo noma inkinga ihlakazeke. Cishe ucasulwa into encane noma inkinga enamandla okuzixazulula yona.

Ukubheka ukuthi yini encibilikayo ephusheni lakho kungakunikeza nophawu olwengeziwe lwamaphupho.

ibanga (Kude kakhulu)

Ukuphupha ukude nekhaya lakho kungabikezela ukuthi uzozithola usesimweni esifanayo empilweni yakho evukayo. Cishe uzothatha uhambo olukuyisa kude nekhaya lakho. Nakuba lokhu kungase kubonakale kungasebenzi okwamanje, kuqinisekile ukukusiza ukuthi uthuthuke empilweni yakho ngokujwayelekile kanye nasembuthanweni wakho wokuxhumana nabantu.

Ukuphupha abangani bakho, noma abanye abantu obaziyo, bekude kungaphakamisa ukuthi "uyaziqhelelanisa" nalaba bantu empilweni yakho evukayo. Udinga ukuthola indlela yokuxhumana kabusha nalaba bantu uma ufuna ukugcina owakho isibopho sobungani nazo ziqinile.

Usizi

Ukuphupha ukuthi usosizini kungamela usizi lwangempela oluzwayo empilweni yakho evukayo. Leli phupho lingasho ukuthi ukhathazeka kakhulu empilweni yakho ovukayo futhi udinga ukuthola okuthile okungakusiza uphumule. Ukuzama ukuthola usizo kwabanye kungenzeka kube kuhle kulolu hlobo lwesimo.

Bhala

Ukuphupha umsele kungaba ukumelela umuzwa wokuthi udinga "ukulahla" othile noma into ongayithandi noma ongayithandi. Lokhu kungasho ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuqeda ubudlelwano obubi noma ukuyeka umsebenzi omubi. Kodwa-ke, uma isimo saleli phupho singenalo ithemba, khona-ke lokhu kungase kube uphawu lokuthi kufanele unamathele kulokho ofuna ukukulahla, okungenani isikhathi eside.

Ukuphupha uwela emgodini kuwuphawu olubi. Leli phupho lisikisela ukuthi uzowela ochungechungeni lwamabhadi. Kungcono ukuqaphela abantu abangase bafune ukukulimaza noma ukukuphoxa. Into enkulu engcupheni kuwena njengamanje ukuma kwakho komphakathi.

Ukuphupha ugxuma noma ugwema ukuwela emgodini kuwuphawu oluhle. Leli phupho lingasikisela ukuthi wenza izinguquko ezithile ukuze uzithuthukise wena kanye nokuma kwakho emphakathini. Inhlanhla itholakala maduze.

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